Monday, November 19, 2012

Fathers & Daughters: Family & Food - Tortilla Soup


This is the second reflection from my three-film essay.
Tortilla Soup is a film about a father and his three daughters. As a father of three daughters, I love father-daughter stories. This is a fun movie centered on a family, its flaws, its dramas, and its food. The 2001 film was not a box office hit, nor was it critically acclaimed. The NY Times called it “forgettable,” while another reviewer called it “fast food.”
The Mexican-America father is a semi-retired chef and restaurant owner living in Southern California who loves to cook large traditional Sunday meals from scratch. He is unusual as a chef because he lost his senses of smell and taste after the death of his wife. His three daughters want out of the traditional family home to live life on their own. The professional cooking show quality of the film’s meal preparation scenes (done by the Food Network, by the way) is just fun for those who love home-cooked ethnic food that is at the center of weekly extended family life.
The oldest daughter, a teacher, is an uptight evangelical Christian who left the family’s culturally traditional Catholic church. She elopes and marries a fellow teacher. The other two sisters, a businesswomen and a student, have affairs. All of this leaves the father feeling left out of their lives, so he wants to sell the family home. Any family movie will show the flaws and drama of family life, even the family of an up-from-the-bootstrap middle class Mexican-American restaurant owner. The second generation’s rebellion and drama is put into a sharper focus because of the Mexican-American context. “Don’t speak Spanglish!”
Some of the family meals in the film reminded me of when I traveled to Ybor City in Tampa to meet my wife’s Spanish relatives for the first time. Some had come by way of Cuba, but all the first generation came from the Northwestern Province of Asturias in Spain in the 1920s. My wife was third generation, but her Abuela taught her many of the traditional Spanish Sunday family food dishes. Abuela’s first meal for me was a tortilla of eggs, onions and potatoes fried in olive oil in a cast-iron pan. She wanted me to feel welcome – after all, I was going to marry her oldest grandchild even though I was a protestant, as was her son, my future father-in- law. Mix that culinary scene with my wife’s mother’s traditional American Southern country cooking and two tours in Germany and you can never tell where in the world the food will be from on our dinner table. Food is often the center of hospitality, of making people feel welcome in a home. We even have a McFarland multi-generation family CD of recipes, “Over the Lips and Onto the Hips,” with all the comfort food and traditional family food from all the branches of the family.
How does Tortilla Soup end? The newly extended family is in a restaurant run by the middle daughter, around a restaurant table eating an updated fusion of traditional and modern recipes. The remarried father whose new wife is expecting gets his senses of smell and taste back after sampling his daughter’s fusion food.
            I love the way Luke’s gospel takes us on a tour of the dinner parties and tables Jesus shared with outsiders, sinners and strangers. Families share tables and flaws, but grace can turn them into a banquet. Conversations with our neighbors and their families often can begin with food, as Luke shows us Jesus doing.  Tortilla Soup is a banquet of film about a flawed family, fun, and food.

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